I enjoy Arnold’s movies but based on his comment I don’t think he gets it! Don’t blame the marriage counselor blame yourself!
http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2015/06/25/arnold-schwarzenegger-on-marriage-counseling-the-biggest-mistake-ive-ever-made/
Detective Gomez has utilized his many years of service in the police force, and used his experience and training to become an exceptional investigator.